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South Carolina Bound !


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While in limbo with the school system, we decided to go ahead and schedule the strabismus surgery for late August. It was about this time that I was approached by my employers about a job opportunity in Charleston, South Carolina. The idea of leaving Richmond had never even occurred to me, but the job sounded perfect (remember I’m still going through the selfish years). As a salesperson, Dennis could take his craft just about anywhere, and after the two years we had just been through, he too was ready for a change. Not long after Ben’s second birthday, Dennis and I travelled to Charleston to interview and check out services available in the Charleston area. I immediately fell in love with the job and we both discovered a wonderful situation with regards to the services available to children with special needs.

You see, Charleston’s city school system was even more dysfunctional than Richmond’s and they had no way of serving children between the ages of two and five. However, their way of handling the children they were required to serve under PL 94-142 and PL 99-457 was the exact right way to do it. They subsidized the children at a daycare facility which was run by the Easter Seals Foundation

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The decision was not a hard one to make, except it would mean we would be leaving a cadre of excellent doctors and therapists who knew Ben and more importantly with whom Ben felt comfortable. However, Charleston’s Medical University and Children’s Hospital ranked up there with the facilities in Richmond. So we felt that new relationships could be built with time.

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Our First IEP – A Non-Starter


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Our first IEP was with The City of Richmond School System.  This school system, as well as the city council, has for decades been the laughing-stock of the Metro Richmond area because of incompetence and corruption.  The City of Richmond perennially spends more money per student, but produces lower standardized scores than any of the surrounding counties.  The services to be provided for Ben as a two-year-old were more for the purposes of early intervention with needed therapies and less about true education.  We consulted with all of our doctors and therapists before the meeting and all of us decided that the services that Ben was receiving at the Cerebral Palsy Center were serving his needs beautifully.  Something that has always been very important to Ben has been schedule and continuity.  To disrupt Ben’s routine can for a while cause him much anxiety.  Our proposal, which we backed up with letters from every doctor and therapist, would be to allow him to continue to be served under an IEP at the Cerebral Palsy Center, with the school system providing a small subsidy so we could afford to keep him there.  Given the city’s normal cost per pupil, we all felt that this was a win-win situation.  However, when we got to the meeting, it was clear that Ben’s IEP had more or less already been written.  The decision had been made where Ben would be located (which happened to be in one of the worst sections of town), and what level of service would be provided.  The school officials were unwilling to even listen to our plan and it seemed as if they could care less how well Ben was progressing in his current situation.  I understand that due to the number of children in the system it is difficult to grant individual requests, but not everything in life is easy.  What I don’t understand is why the local school systems did not partner with the wonderful local facilities like the Cerebral Palsy Center and Childrens’ Hospital, which later merged and are still providing excellent services to our young special needs community.  To say the least, Dennis and I left the IEP meeting without signing the document.  This elicited an indignant letter from the Director of Pupil Services and Special Education, (the Honorable) Frederick L

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. Jones, who demanded to know why we would do such a thing.  “Hey Fred, maybe it’s because we care about what’s best for our son.”   Luckily as fate would have it, changes were about to happen that would make further conflict with Richmond City Schools unnecessary.  Hooray!

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Hello Public School System


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Ben’s second birthday was just around the corner and it was now time to start our long association with the public school system. Because Ben had been identified as a child with special needs, under the 1986 public law (PL) 99-457 he was now eligible to receive services from the school system. PL 99-457 was an extension of the 1975 PL 94-142, the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act, or IDEA. The intent of this law was to improve educational opportunities for disabled children and adults aged three through twenty-one. PL 99-457 expanded to include two-year-olds who were identified as “at risk”. PL 94-142 stated that individuals with special needs were to be provided a free and appropriate education in the least restrictive environment to the maximum extent possible. This meant for the first time children with special needs would be educated in regular classes with “normal” (I hate that word) children unless, because of the severity of the disability, education could not be achieved in this manner. This law was a huge step forward for the disabled community. I can remember when I was a child the special education children were completely separated from the rest of the school population for the entire day, including lunchtime and recess. Because of our misunderstanding of these children it led to a lot of ridicule and downright cruelty. In today’s world children who were once completely isolated from the rest of the world are included in almost all activities available to other children.

The first step was the evaluation to determine if Ben was eligible for placement. Given what I know now about the bureaucracy that is our public school system I’m quite surprised how easy that part of it was. All we really needed to do was provide all of the doctors’ reports that we had collected over the preceding year. It was more than enough to gain Ben’s entry into “the system”.

The next step was the IEP, or Individualized Educational Plan

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. This is one of the most important documents in the life of a child with special needs. This plan is a map of what the child’s day will look like from the minute he leaves, until he returns home. Under the law an interdisciplinary team is formed to write the child’s IEP. The team should consist of, but is not restricted to, a representative of the local school district, the child’s teachers and the child’s parents. The law stipulates certain criteria that are to be included in the IEP. There should be a statement of the child’s present level of educational performance; the annual goals, including short term instructional objectives; the specific special education and related services to be provided for the child and the extent to which the child will be able to participate in the regular education program; the projected dates for initiation of services and anticipated duration of services; the appropriate objective criteria and assessment procedures and schedule for determining on at least an annual basis whether the short term instructional objectives are being met. Parents who are preparing for this process need to educate themselves fully about what their rights are. Their voices are the most important and can easily be disregarded if they are not ready to advocate for their child. We ran into many professionals along the way who tried to convince us that they knew much better than we about what was best for our child. I must admit that our first several IEP meetings were quite contentious, because we never quite felt like Ben’s best interest was being served. It was almost as if the school system was overwhelmed with the extra children they were now having to serve and they were coming to the table with a standardized plan which best fit their needs; not Ben’s. Trust me, I understand budgetary constraints, and the burden our government puts on localities. PL 99-457 put many more children into the system at an increased cost. My issue was that the school system officials were not willing to “think outside of the box” when writing these IEP’s. Lower cost solutions could have been reached had they been willing listen to and work with the parents. Our story is a good “for instance”.

Next up; Our First IEP – A Non-Starter.

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The Great Daycare Challenge


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As summer approached our daycare situation suddenly became the focus of most of my attention. The friends with whom we had shared a nanny for the last year and one half found themselves expecting their third child and it was time for Mom to stay at home. I was very happy for them and thought that maybe a center based environment might be a good change for Ben as he would be able to associate with more children his own age. This would be my first experience with just one of the many barriers we faced because some in the general population are either unaccepting of or unprepared to handle the disabled …..or maybe a little of both. I know things have changed a great deal for the better in the last twenty years, but looking back it all still annoys me.

I started the process by going to every resource I knew to get a list of the best daycare centers in the area. I realized that because of Ben’s challenges we needed to be very selective in our choice. Each facility was ranked based upon three factors; convenience, affordability, and quality rating. Once I had my list, I began to visit each. I can’t remember exactly how many places I visited but each visit ended in one of two results. Either the center flat-out refused to take Ben, or they would “do me a favor” and take him but the price would be much more because of the expected extra attention Ben would need. I was appalled; first at myself for being naïve enough to think that one of these places would be right for my son, and next at society for being so ill-equipped to handle someone who is a little different.

If I had it to do over again there is no question in my mind that this would have been a turning point in the life of my family that most certainly would have changed where we are today. This was a time early enough in both our careers that Dennis and I could have made the changes necessary that would have allowed me to stay at home with Ben. To
this day I regret that we did not do that. You must understand though, that I came of age in the 1980’s. This was a time when women were being told they could do it all and have it all. We were the superior gender and time spent with our kids was all about quality, not quantity. As a teenager I listened to Helen Reddy bellowing “I am Woman hear me Roar”. Yeah……Right

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As my search continued and became more desperate I began to interview people who took care of children in their homes, as Dennis and I still could not afford to hire our own nanny. Most either did not impress me or showed hesitancy about taking a child with special needs. However, I did finally find a young woman named Patricia Snow who connected with Ben the minute we walked into her home. The best part was; she lived just a few miles from our house. Patricia was truly a blessing for those months that she so lovingly cared for our son.

Ben with Patricia and one of his playmates.


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